I feel like I’m going to be that aunt who drinks vodka straight out of the bottle and ruins Christmas.
Isn’t it strange? There are so many people out there who secretly love someone. And there are so many people out there who have no idea that someone secretly loves them.
You must never behave as if your life belongs to a man. Do you hear me?’ Aunty Ifeka said. ‘Your life belongs to you and you alone.
― Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Half of a Yellow Sun (via tirhase)